Real Talk Is it Ever OK to Curse in the Office

Real Talk Is it Ever OK to Curse in the bro Do you feel comfortable cursing in your workplace? Or do you frown upon foul language in the amtsstube? It seems like in 2018, no one can agree on what language is truly taboo in the workplace. One FGBer wrote to the Community to ask for opinions on this very topic.Cursing in the office do you think its unprofessional under all circumstances? she asked.I feel like men at my office get away with it all the time. To explain a bit -- Im elend particularly a potty mouth, but sometimes it is really satisfying and gets the point across in a way that you cant without cuss words. And moreover, does crap count?Numerous FGBers offered their (funny) gut responses.Wow, if crap is a curse word then I need to revisit my entire existence, one woman said.Does saying f** when my computer freezes count? another asked.It seemed as though the general consensus for FGBers was that cursing can be acceptable as long as its not in a malicious way.As long as its no t pointed at someone, I dont think cursing is a huge deal, one said.They agreed that whether or not cursing is acceptable is dependent on the situation.I think there is a difference between purposely cursing and accidentally slipping with a word, one FGBer wrote. I think you can really tell if someone didnt mean to say it, and thats kind of funny.Theres a distinction between cursing when you drop something, and casually using it for emphasis in every conversation, another said.Personally, I think its a case by case thing. What does the culture of your office and the nature of your work lend itself to? In my current position, I work with and report to ex-cops. Calling someone a f***** goes over MUCH better than when I worked in a financial institution, one FGBer said. If your colleagues are easily offended, maybe keep the adult language to a minimum. But if your colleagues are, well, adults, they should understand that sometimes schwimmbad words happen. Dont drop hate language, and d ont FORCE yourself to swear if its not your natural inclination, but I think its with questioning this whole notion that swearing is somehow a moral or intellectual failure. Additionally, Im all about giving the boys a run for their money... If they swear, so can youI agree with this well-put advice.Cursing is acceptable in certain offices and unacceptable in others. Take the time to feel out your current employer and coworkers before letting your curse language fly.And if you are someone who is offended by bad language in the workplace, and you find yourself surrounded by curse-language abusers, consider discussing the situation with a supervisor. If you truly feel uncomfortable, let her know you do not want anyone to be reprimanded, but you are unsure how to react when you feel language is offensive.Reach out the Fairygodboss Community to receive advice from FGBers with their own unique experiences.More advice from womenShould Botox be a Social Norm? Women Weigh InShould I Give My Child a Smartphone? Women Weigh InWhat Current Fashion Trend Makes You Cringe? Women Weigh In